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Why should you choose bondage tape?

Before I show you how to use bondage tape to tie your partner, I want to tell you a little bit about Leja and me.

Not much later after Leja and I started dating and then having sex, we started exploring toys and other gear. We found that we are both curious and want to try stuff. All kinds of stuff.

The list had things like spanking paddles, butt plugs, various sex toys, lingerie, lubricants, and whatnot, however, handcuffs, tying each other, and trying bondage gear were at the top part of the list. She wanted to let go, to explore her submissive side and I wanted to be in control.

However, the real deal, as many people like to refer to it — rope bondage always was left out.

We simply did not have time to examine and learn the knots, and we were always looking for a quicker and simpler solution, hence the handcuffs and bondage harnesses.

But one day, browsing the web, Leja found some sick-looking lingerie made with bondage tape..bondage tape! I kid you not.

Well, to put it correctly, the lingerie was not made with it, the person in the picture had bondage tape rolled around them in a way that it formed lingerie. Crazy.

We exchanged looks and the pact was made, we are going in hard. We are going to master bondage tape. It looks dope and it has to be simpler than rope bondage.

Let’s take a look at some of the key benefits of this super versatile piece of kit.

Bondage tape leaves less of a trace on the skin than rope, as the tension is spread over a larger surface area. It also sticks to itself rather than to the skin, reducing the risk of it leaving marks or pulling out body hair like other types of tape or restraints often do.

An added bonus is that with tape, there’s no need to have practiced knots to be able to use it, which makes it a great choice for bondage beginners. Importantly, bondage tape is also easily removable with a good pair of safety shears — so you can free your partner very quickly if they use their safe word.

Investing in bondage tape leaves you able to try out so much. Think hand, leg, or whole-body restraints, or securing your partner to furniture (or even to a wand vibrator). Whatever you’re wanting to try next in your kinky sex life, it’s likely that bondage tape will be a great addition to your collection.

Bondage tape is generally fairly cheap and can be reused a good few times before it needs throwing away, so you’ll definitely get your money’s worth before having to buy a new roll. Its affordability also means you needn’t be afraid to use plenty to get your partner restrained nicely and securely.

Yep, you read that right! Wrapping bondage tape around your or your partner’s breasts, starting at the bottom and wrapping upwards can make a mouth-watering homemade push-up bra. Bondage tape also makes great nipple covers and is more gentle than other tapes on sensitive areas.

To be honest, the first several (7) times I got super irritated with it. It was fiddly, I always managed to stick the pieces I did not want to stick together and that was making me super angry and demotivated.

But several times later, I started getting better at it. The pieces were not getting stuck. The ties were looking more elegant. We were on the right track.

Using bondage tape is not rocket science — obviously.

After just a couple of uses, you will definitely get a hang of it, however, give this section a thorough read and you will save yourself time.

The time you would otherwise spend unrolling and straightening the tape, just to redo the position.

Before you delve into a position, stop for a hot second and think it through.

Think in what direction you are going to roll it around your partner.

Think if there is something getting in the way.

Think about the position your partner is in — is it comfortable?

Are they stable/balanced?

Are they going to fall if you do this/that?

Give it a thought and you will be faster, and more efficient and the whole experience is going to be more fun and pleasurable.

There is no better way to ruin the experience than by redoing the position XY times.

We’d say that self-bondage is definitely possible with bondage tape, however, it’s easier with two people (the rigger & the bottom).

In certain positions, the rigger will roll the tape around the person, and the bottom will help by holding it for a second. This will also make you more efficient, joints/overlaps will be neat looking and you won’t have to redo the joint.

You are definitely able to do it alone, which you might want, especially because of the psychological aspect where you as a Dominant person tie your submissive, however, from the practical standpoint, a little help goes a long way.

Why act all tough and “capable” and then lose time unrolling and straightening the tape, over and over again, right?

Except in the starting, basic positions, it is highly likely that you will have to use several pieces of tape to achieve the desired position.

The correct way of connecting two pieces of tape is to create a big enough overlay. The tape sticks to itself and by creating a big enough overlay, you are making sure the tape won’t separate.

So, if you are connecting two pieces of tape, ensure you have at least 4 inches (10cm) of an overlay.

Similarly, if you are rolling several ‘’loops’’ of tape around your partner, or to say, stacking the tape vertically, make sure there are 1.2 inches (3cm) of overlay so the tape can stick properly — if there is no overlay it will just fall off.

When starting a position, know that the first loop around doesn’t need to be aesthetically pleasing, so don’t overthink it!

Once that first loop is complete, it will become easier to build layers that are more visually pleasing and look how you want them to.

Also, don’t worry if the tape is loose initially — once it sticks to itself after that first loop, you can start to build up the tension. It doesn’t have to be a perfect first-time round.

During play or a session, find a place to put your pieces of tape so they’re easy to grab when you need them.

After you finish your session, carefully roll the tape back into the roll.

By taking the time and doing this somewhat hideous task meticulously, you are going to maintain the good state of your tape for future uses.

Rest assured, it is not going to last forever, but with proper care, it’s going to last much longer.

Have your partner place their hands behind their back in a comfortable position. Tie their hands around the wrists.

Have your partner place their hands behind their back in a comfortable position. Tie their hands around the wrists. Then tie their hands a bit above the elbows. A bit more restrictive position but not that much. The psychological effect of being restrained in two places has a stronger effect.

Both of these positions can be done in front of your partner’s body.

Have your partner place their hands behind their back, aiming to touch each elbow with the opposite palm. Tie the tape a bit under the elbow to each wrist or palm, depending on your partner’s flexibility.

Have your partner touch their shoulders with their fingers. Tie the hands a bit above the elbows. I would recommend using it as a punishment position as it might be tiresome to the bottom.

Have your partner place their hands on their thighs. Tie the tape around your partner’s body by making a circle above the chest. Use another piece of tape to fixate the hands to the body by tying it around the elbows in the
same motion.

This position can also be done with hands behind the back.

Have your partner pull their ankles close to their thighs in a comfortable position. Connect the lower and the upper leg by tying the tape above the knee.

Here the legs are tied in a similar manner as in the Butterfly Leg position. To make the connection stronger, use another piece of tape and place it above the first one, closer to the ankles.

Have your partner lay on their back and raise their legs above their head. Tie the tape around their thighs to connect the legs.

Combine handcuffs (tie their hands behind their back around the wrists) and the Butterfly Leg position (connect the lower and the upper leg by tying the tape above the knee). Very restrictive and tiring for the partner.

Have your partner lay on their back and raise their legs. Tie ankles together. Then tell your partner to hug their legs and tie the wrists behind their legs.

Have your partner pull their feet together and place their wrists next to their ankles. With a single piece of tape tie the wrists and the ankles together.

Have your partner lay on their back as close to the bedpost as possible. Tie their wrists together to the bedpost. Then have them pull their legs above their head and lean them on the bedpost. Tie each ankle to the bedpost.

Have your partner kneel in front of the chair and lay on it. Tie their thighs and upper arms to the chair legs. Great way to imitate a real spanking bench.

Place a magic wand or similar vibrating toy so it simulates your partner’s intimate area. Using tape, secure the toy on their thigh.

It might seem trivial and pointless, but know that injuries/unpleasant situations mostly happen when you are either careless or when you least expect them.

Though tape is generally safer than rope as the tension created is much more dispersed, there are still some important safety precautions to bear in mind.

Here are a few do’s and don’ts to help make sure your bondage tape session goes as smoothly as possible.

As with all kink/BDSM plays, safety is an important aspect. We can’t stress it or repeat it enough times — take your time to think everything through & talk everything through with your partner.

DO

Have a good pair of safety shears (like these) close by at all times, in case
your partner needs to be freed from their restraints quickly.

Make sure you have a safe word that you’re both well aware of.

A popular choice is the ‘’traffic light system’’ as it’s very easy to remember.

DON’T:

Leave your partner unattended whilst they’re in restraints — whether that
be tape, rope or anything else.

Use any type of tape without carrying out a patch test first to check for
allergies or skin sensitivities.

Skip any of the safety precautions above!

Do not tighten the tape too much. It should be tight enough, to serve the
purpose (eg. restraining), however, it should not cause harm or
unpleasantness at any given moment.

Communicate with your partner to figure out the right amount of tightness.

Agree upon a ‘’safe gesture’’ if either of you is going to be gagged or unable
to speak for any other reason.

Check-in with your partner regularly to ensure they’re doing ok, especially
if playing with bondage tape is something you’re new to.

It features 60+ positions in total which you can easily replicate.

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